-He's Just Not That In To You, by Greg Behrendt, Liz Tuccillo, Lauren Monchik - Simon Spotlight Entertainment (2005.04.26) - paperback - 304 pages
Nice and handy little one liners to get you thinking. "You don't know any of his friends."
-It's Called a Breakup Because It's Broken: The Smart Girl's Break-Up Buddy [Book]by Greg Behrendt, Amiira Ruotola-Behrendt
I got this book on audio, and was very helpful. I listened to it towards the end of a bad relationship, it gave me the strength to realize that is wasn't going to work and that that was okay.
-Have a New You by Friday: How to Accept Yourself, Boost Your Confidence & Change Your Life in 5 Days [Book]by Dr. Kevin Leman in Books
This is really an "understand you, by Friday book". Case in point, I was my mothers first child but remarriage made me #2. We were well aware the baby issues with my other siblings but I didn't realize that I was adjusting my personality too, oldest child qualities with some middle child qualities blended in. I just thought I was messed up and confused.
-Codependent no more: how to stop controlling others and start caring for yourself [Book]by Melody Beattie in Books
I haven't finished this book yet, I got done with the first part and decided I should start over and actually do the exercises this time. If your happiness thrives on the other people in your family doing what you expect them to do, you should read this book. I hope to finish it before you do though!